Allan Bruce Stewart, 83, known alternately as “Big Stew” and “Slick” to those who loved him, passed away on the morning of Thursday, May 28th, 2026, surrounded by his wife, Pam, and his family. He was a man of great love and few words, so to linger on his life would likely make him smile skeptically in Heaven; however, those who loved him, which are many, would find it a disservice to his memory to not discuss the essential qualities that made him such a special person and remarkable husband, father, friend, brother, and grandfather.

Tall, strong, handsome, and undeniably cool, Allan never let his numerous advantages get in the way of his deep humility; however, he had reasons not to be humble. From dating Pam, whom he justifiably called “the prettiest girl in any room” for the entirety of his life, to graduating US Army Ranger Jump School, to serving as the President of Sears, to enjoying life on Kiawah Island for almost 30 years, Allan was a man as accomplished as any in all the conventional metrics of success. With fifty-nine years of marriage and over three decades working at Sears, Allan lived his life with steadfast commitment, integrity, and with great appreciation.

“I’d like to be there for that;” a common sentiment Allan expressed. A road warrior, Allan never hesitated to jump in the car to be there for friends and family. He wouldn’t miss an annual 11-hour drive to Bucknell University for a 24-hour reunion with dear college friends or 8 hours on I-95 to spend time with his beloved older sister and husband. Big Stew collected his grandkids' college baseball hats and hung them on hooks, ready to wear to cheer them on, whether it was joining college move-in days, Michigan football games, dance performances, sporting events; any moment big or small, he showed up with genuine support and a continuous curiosity. A true breakfast connoisseur, he enjoyed many brunches at favorite diners with his grandkids, family, and friends. Known affectionately for quick phone check-ins, he loved to hear what was going on in everyone’s day to day. With a sharp memory for details, he made people feel seen and heard and was able to be thoughtfully engaged in the lives of his loved ones until his final day on Earth.

But it was the unconventional measurements, the intangibles, in which Allan thrived the most. He was honest without cruelty, patient without weakness, and confident without selfishness. Allan lived for his family and friends, not himself, and like his lush Carolina garden, he cultivated love and trust with all those who knew him. He was the most interesting man at the party but not afraid to be the first to leave it. He created in others the desire for approval, and he never failed to give it when it was deserved. He inspired his loved ones to want to be better from the example he set, and his lifelong embodiment of strength and kindness has made, and will continue to make, the world a better place.

As Big Stew goes to join his family and friends who have passed, he is remembered lovingly by his loved ones who are still present. He is survived by his beloved wife of 59 years, Pam, as well as his treasured children: Jeff, Tim, Ashley, and Doug; dear daughters-in-law: Anne (Jeff), Bonnie (Tim), and Andrea (Doug) and son-in law, Bill (Ashley); and his 10 cherished grandchildren: Hannah and Russell Stewart; Charlie (Monica), Jack (Marzia), and Henry Stewart; Ava, Reece, and Gray Tiffany; Charlotte and Faye Stewart. He was also eagerly awaiting the arrival of his first great granddaughter, Sabrina Shea Stewart, expected in July and a great grandson due in September. He is survived by his adored older sister, Donna Spackman, and her husband, Dr. Tom Spackman, both of whom he loved very much. Allan took care of his loved ones until his final hours and was the consummate gentleman in both life and in death and while he would certainly want these words to be brief, his legacy of love will endure endlessly through all who knew him.

A Celebration of Life will be held in South Carolina in 2027, when his loved ones can all plan to be there. In lieu of donations or flowers, please stay in touch with Pam, give her a call, or drop by for a visit.

Arrangements are by J. Henry Stuhr, Inc., Mount Pleasant Chapel. A memorial message may be sent to the family on our website at www.jhenrysturh.com.